Retired Lancaster teacher's plea for more help after being 'bullied' for three years
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The 60-year-old, who wishes to remain anonymous, is suffering health problems because of the relentless gaslighting – or covert bullying – she has encountered in the community.
As Anti-Bullying Week approaches from November 14-18, the woman feels bullying of adults by other adults is being ignored.
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Hide Ad“I am coming across lots of people who have experienced this type of bullying but when they try to access help in the area, there is no-one to support them, and when people don’t believe you, it feels like you’re hitting a brick wall,” she said.
She has developed eczema and breathing problems caused by the stress of her situation and is also receiving counselling.
“We press for anti-bullying in schools but once people leave school they can bully all they like in a community and create destruction, without any consequences. Residents at all levels should feel safe in their communities,” she said.
“Support for out of school situations is really not available. Adults are left alone or ridiculed. Laws say you have to be physically attacked before the courts will help but emotional abuse is equally destructive.”
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Hide AdGaslighting is a form of psychological abuse where a person or group causes someone to question their own sanity, memories or perception of reality. The term originates from the 1938 play and 1944 film, Gaslight, in which a husband manipulates his wife into thinking she has a mental illness.
The retired teacher has contacted the police about her situation and Lancaster MP, Cat Smith.
The woman feels there needs to be more local recognition of the seriousness of gaslighting among the police, councils and health services and that it should be covered by anti-social behaviour policies.
She recommends that anyone in a similar situation to her can find information online, in particular at https://bulliesout.com/ which has an article about gaslighting and https://www.suzylamplugh.org/ which focuses on stalking and harassment.
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Hide Ad*Anti-Bullying Week 2022 is coordinated in England and Wales by the Anti-Bullying Alliance and has the theme Reach Out. The week will kick off with Odd Socks Day on Monday November 14, where adults and children wear odd socks to celebrate what makes us all unique.